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Insight #38

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“Les illettrés du XXIème siècle ne seront pas ceux qui ne savent pas lire et écrire mais ceux qui ne savent pas apprendre, désapprendre et réapprendre.”

“The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn.”

― Alvin Toffler

 

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Insight #37

achievement

 

“Chaque matin nous renaissons. C’est ce que nous faisons aujourd’hui qui importe le plus.”

“Every morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most.”

― Jack Kornfield. “The Buddha’s Little Instruction Book”

 

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Insight #36

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“Penser est difficile, c’est pourquoi la plupart se font juges.”

“Thinking is difficult, that’s why most people judge.”

― C.G. Jung

 

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Before I die…

before I die
Picture by Trevor Coe

Inspiration can be defined as a kind of enthusiasm, a creative breath that inspires the writer, artist or researcher to have an idea that leads to creation. And if we think of coaching as an art, then it is desirable that art should inspire the coach.

From New Orleans to everywhere else

Art can inspire the coach to help the individual examine his aspirations. Artist and designer Candy Chang offers a similar opportunity to the public with her interactive work “Before I Die…,” which was created in February 2011 in New Orleans. It has since been reproduced in 73 countries in 36 languages.

Affected by the unexpected death of a close friend while struggling to maintain perspective in her daily life, Candy Chang imagined transforming one side of an abandoned house into a giant blackboard that would be covered by one unfinished phrase, painted across the blackboard numerous times, to be filled in with a crayon: “Before I die, I want to…” The wall was filled in less than a day with the dreams of passers-by. This artistic installation represented a renaissance in the form of art and social activism that enabled individuals to express their wishes in a public space.

The first in a long line of walls—more than a thousand in total that spread across five continents—was a neglected space that became a place reserved for constructive reflection and contemplation, a sharing place bearing the memory of that which really counts as we grow up and change. The artist’s message is that in considering death, rather than provoking anguish, we can bring clarity to our lives. In a way, death brings a metaphorical aspect to life (the abandoned house is transformed into a place of creativity), as well as a symbolic one (aspiration rather than regret) and a dynamic one (public participation in the work itself).

From art to coaching

How does this relate to coaching? As coaches, we are frequently confronted with clients who feel they are in a rut, whether professional or other. Dissatisfied at work, convinced they are in the wrong place but without knowing how to define or reorient their career, exhausted and languishing impotently in their own unease, they are locked into a downward spiral of negativity. Focused on all that doesn’t work, fascinated by obstacles, blinded by fear and lacking prospects, it becomes too difficult to avoid a crash.

The role of the coach at this moment is to help them find and relight the internal spark and fan the flame that will eventually become a source of auto-regenerative energy. If we help invert the polarity of the spiral and enable the individual to view each new step as a stage of conscious expansion and endogenous development, we can help them reach the center of a virtuous circle.

Candy Chang’s work is inspirational in the question that it provides for the coach to trigger this process: “What would you like to accomplish before you die?” With a question of this genre—undoubtedly provocative—the present and future merge and potentially forgotten dreams awake in a petri dish, where energy and enthusiasm can be cultivated. It is equally a question that leads to reflection on the theme of the purpose, of the raison d’être, of what the individual would like to leave as a legacy. In fact, these revelations can be used to identify a system of guiding values and beliefs that are deeply anchored in the subject and provide the coach with material to be explored.

In conclusion

Whether it’s finding love or Atlantis, becoming a source of inspiration or seeing an elk, having a boat or being published (some of the examples found on the walls of “Before I Die”); the dream itself is of little importance if the coach is careful to read between the lines. And if the gap between aspiration and reality seems insurmountable and thus unrealistic as a relevant coaching goal, it at least should provide the coachee with a chance to take yet another step towards self-discovery and still become a source of inspiration that leads to action.

And let us never forget that if coaching is a dance, the dance is unquestionably an art.

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This article has been published in International Coach Federation blog.  It was originally published here in this blog, in French.

  
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Insight #35

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Vladimir Velickovic (Paris, 2011)

 

“Qui cherche l’infini n’a qu’à fermer les yeux !”

“If you’re looking for infinity, just close your eyes!”

― Milan Kundera

 

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Insight #34

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Victor HORTA, la maison Autrique (1893) – François SCHUITEN, La théorie du grain de sable (2004) – Encre et acrylique sur papier

 

“S’il est exact que la logique est la base-même du raisonnement de tout créateur, je crois qu’il ne devrait pas être permis d’interférer avec son rêve de « charme », cette entité délicate et superflue qui souvent s’ajoute à la dure nécessité.”

“If it is correct that logic is the basis of the creator’s slightest reasoning, I believe it must not be allowed to interfere with one’s dream’s of ‘charm,’ that delicate, superfluous entity that often adds to harsh necessity.”

― Victor Horta

 

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Insight #33

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Leonor FINI – Le bout du monde, 1949 – Huile sur toile, 35 x 28 cm

 

“Tu ne peux pas nager vers de nouveaux horizons tant que tu n’as pas le courage de perdre de vue le rivage.”

“You cannot swim for new horizons until you have courage to lose sight of the shore.”

― William Faulkner

 

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Insight #32

mindfulness

photo © NASA

 

“Si la nuit tu pleures le soleil, tes larmes t’empêcheront de voir les étoiles.”

“If you cry because the sun has gone out of your life, your tears will prevent you from seeing the stars.”

― Rabindranath Tagore

 

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Insight #31

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“Il n’est jamais trop tard pour être ce que vous auriez pu être.”

“It is never too late to be what you might have been.”

― George Eliot

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